“Be very
careful, then, how you live – not as unwise but as wise,
making the
most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.
Therefore
do not be foolish
but
understand what the Lord's will is.”
~
Ephesians 5:15 – 17
This
seems like a pretty good passage to start off the new year – we all
know we're going to be another year older; it would be nice to be
another year wiser, as some sort of compensation! And you can't be
wiser just by deciding to be – there's some work involved: either
you become wiser through experience (not always, but often, painful)
or by studying others' experiences. As I tell my kids (or think
towards my kids), you don't have to make every mistake yourself; you
can learn from others' mistakes as well.
In
the book of Proverbs, wisdom is often personified as a woman. We
meet her in chapter one, calling aloud, raising her voice, shouting
out in the open, in the public square, on noisy street corners, at
the city gate, urging passersby to listen and heed her warnings. And
then, when the passersby ignore her and disregard her voice, Wisdom
laughs at their calamity and mocks them when disaster and distress
overwhelm them. Seems kind of harsh. But Wisdom says at the end of
the chapter, “For the waywardness of the simple will kill them, and
the complacency of fools will destroy them; but whoever listens to
me will live in safety and be at ease, without fear of harm” (vs.
32 – 33).
So
really, the responsibility for being wise lies with us – Wisdom has
done her job, calling out, waving her arms, warning, advising. Our
job is to heed her call and live by it.
Why
is it, then, that we struggle to figure out which is the wise path to
take? Why can't we discern whether the voice we hear on the street
corner is Wisdom warning us away from danger or simply a crazy person
waving their arms in the midst of a noisy crowd?
I
think perhaps our ability to discern is tied to what we're looking
for – are we looking for wisdom or are we looking for approval from
others? That's my quandary; others will have different struggles.
If you think you're the only one with good ideas, you may see Wisdom
as a crazy person and miss the message. Or start arguing with her.
If you're just trying to keep your head down and blend in with the
crowd, you may not even notice Wisdom shouting on the street corner.
Or try to avoid being associated with that oddball. If you're too
busy in the rat race of life, traffic may force you past Wisdom
without slowing down to understand what she's saying.
The
beginning of chapter two says that if we are listening for wisdom,
calling out for her as loudly as she is calling to us, looking for
her as for a treasure, then we will “understand the fear of the
LORD [which is the beginning of wisdom Prov. 9:10] and find the
knowledge of God. For the LORD gives wisdom...” (Prov. 2:5 –
6a).
So
slow down, pay attention, be on the lookout for Wisdom. You'll see
her; it's up to you to recognize her and listen.
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